Apparently, these are big indicators the marriage won't last.
There's one person at the wedding who has a front row seat and is usually not related to the couple being wed.
And that's the photographer.
Think about it - they're there with an all-access pass to every moment, from the ceremony to the speeches to the dancing.
So, they probably notice quite a lot, right?
Well, one photographer reckons they've built up enough knowledge to even know whether or not a marriage will last at this early stage.
TikTok user @shaylamherrington got the lowdown from a wedding photographer who's been working in the industry for "10 or 15 years".
Here's the three things she says are indicators a marriage won't last:
- When the newly married husband or wife take more than three photos with family members without the other spouse
- When the bridesmaids, or the groomsmen avoid talking about the spouse when they’re getting ready or doing toasts
- When one of the spouses will spend more time with friends at the reception rather than with their new husband or wife
@shaylamherringtonDo you think this holds some truth? ##bride ##bridetobe ##weddingphotographer ##couple ##engaged ##videographer ##weddings♬ original sound - Shayla Herrington
And a fair few people are agreeing with the points.
A top comment is, "Yep, my ex-husband didn’t spend time with me at the wedding and the groomsmen didn’t even say hi to me at all".
While a fellow wedding photographer totally agreed: "YEP. YEP. YEEEEEPPPPPP".